Advice That Sticks: 9 Mentor Lines That Change How You Live
Read nine blunt, memorable mentor lines people actually use to shift decisions, relationships, and daily habits. Pick one, try it for a week, and see what changes.
What’s one piece of advice from a mentor or role model that still shapes how you act today? People get short, blunt, and often surprising guidance—stuff that cuts through the noise and actually lands.
Some memorable lines people swear by
“Never ask anyone to do something you aren’t willing to do.”
Leadership starts with example. If you want loyalty, show humility and shared effort.
“Never talk to poor people in a high tone or rude manner.”
Respect across class lines keeps you humane. How you treat someone when there’s no gain says a lot about you.
“If you don’t want anyone to know, don’t do it.”
Think before you act—your reputation travels faster than you expect. In the age of phones, this is gold.
“You’re never wrong to do the right thing.”
Use that when ethics feel costly. Doing the right thing keeps your long-term self intact.
“You are 100% in control of what kind of day you have.”
This is about mindset. You can’t control everything, but you can control your reactions. Small choices compound.
“Don’t stick your dick in crazy.”
Crude, yes. Effective, sometimes. It’s a blunt reminder to choose partners who bring stability, not drama. Boundaries matter.
“Don’t put someone on a pedestal.”
Respect people, but keep them human. Idolizing someone sets you up for disappointment and poor choices—especially in dating.
“No one will care about you if you don’t care about you first.”
Self-respect isn’t selfish. It’s the foundation for healthy relationships, better decisions, and more energy for the things you actually want to build.
“Do what you want. Nobody gives a shit.”
Translation: stop waiting for permission. Live intentionally. You’ll waste less time seeking approval and more time doing what matters to you.
How to use this advice—small, practical moves
- Pick one line that hits you hardest. Try it for a week. See what changes.
- Translate the line into a daily habit: “control your day” → set a 5-minute morning intention.
- Use the ethics line as a filter for tough calls. Ask: “Is this the right thing?”
- When dating, remember the pedestal rule. Look for consistency, not drama or fantasy.
Advice from mentors isn’t always polished. It’s often messy and blunt. That’s okay. The point isn’t pretty words—it’s a nudge that helps you act differently. Try a line on for size. Keep what works. Toss the rest.
What’s one short piece of advice you’d pass on? Share it and you might change someone’s week.
